Where do children and teens fit into this new church? This question came up several times in our meeting last Sunday and it is one of the places of hesitancy for most of the people with families who are considering a church plant. I say that to let you know that if you are worrying about this, you are NOT alone!
In this post, I want to give you a few things to think about from our perspective and invite you to converse about what the answer to this question might be in our church plant.
Traditionally, the modern evangelical movement has segregated age groups into different ministries. We actually take a separate approach. Our hope is that we will find the tenuous balance between ministering to our children and teens in a appropriate and meaningfully way while at the same time including them in the core of the community. Oftentimes, church becomes about adults in the middle of the life cycle (30-55) and ministries to others, such as children and teens ministries (as well as retired/elderly), become supportive to the main ministry emphasis of the church. Our hope is that as we integrate children into the life of the community, and making our services and life events open to the inclusion of families that we will be able to engage our children in their spiritual life, while teaching them that they are important in the family of God.
As a CCDA focused church we appreciate the focus that they have on ministering to the young members of the community. John Perkins has said over and over again, that if you want to see community change, you must begin with children. He also says that this is a multi-year commitment. We want to be committed to community development, and because of this we must recognize that children are a major agent of transformation in our community.
We also desire to support children’s parents as the primary educator and spiritual leader in a child’s life. Engaging family systems (where intact) and becoming surrogate families where they are not, is important and we want to strengthen not only our children but the family systems they are included in. This happens through active community involvement of childern interacting with their parents and other adults, and adults interacting with children and recognizing the importance of their role in the spiritual development of their children.
Those are some of my thoughts on the subject and I’m sure that they are not complete. Please use this opportunity to interact and express your feelings on the topic. It is an important one to our church.
Josh